PARENTS, TEACH YOUR CHILD WHICH WAY TO GO…

Everyone who is a parent, uncle or aunty must absolutely read this.
I copied this absolutely wonderful write up on Home Training from one of my WhatsApp groups and I must confess it ministered greatly to me so I have decided to share it (with additional input by my humble self) with my wider network.

 

WHAT ARE YOU TEACHING YOUR CHILD?
“You are a mistake of a wife” Mike screamed at Kate…
“And you are a terrible husband.. you are my
greatest mistake ” Kate retorted…

A large number of women in the world population are crying on a daily basis, because of the terrible husbands they have.
But Ironically, it is the same WOMEN who trained “characterless” boys who have become terrible husbands…

Men are complaining because of the terrible wives they have, but can’t we also blame MEN..MEN were the fathers of the untrained girls who have become the characterless wives of today…

It is often believed that fathers have the greatest influence on their sons and mothers, on their daughters. This might be a fact but it is not an absolute truth. Boys can learn emotional intelligence that is greatly needed in a relationship from their mothers. While a fellow man will pass on erroneous stereotypical male-chauvinistic beliefs about women to his son, a mother will give her son a deep insight into real woman issues and help him understand exactly how they will affect a woman, and to see things from a woman’s point of view. And a father who spends time with his daughter, will also teach her valuable lessons about men and how best to relate with them.

Many parents especially women have made the mistake of instilling the unhelpful and insensitive trait in their sons from when they were boys.

MUM, when last did you ask your boy to do the dishes, clean the bath or to help with your shopping trolley.

Does your son watch T.V and play video games while his sisters are with you in the kitchen – after all, you would say, “he is a boy and his sisters are girls who must learn how to cook”?

Did you spank your son so hard his eyes watered the last time he raised up his hands to beat a girl or his sister…..?

WHY then do we blame the husbands of today, they are only living the life the mothers of yesterday permitted them to live…

DAD, Your future son in-law is going to be thankful to you, if you can get involved in training his wife…A man knows best what men want to see in their wives…

How many football matches have you made your daughter sit down and watch with you? And we wonder why wives fall out with their husbands when his just must watch that Arsenal v Chelsea match and nothing else matters. When did you have a frank talk about sex and just how important it is to a man, with your daughter – instead of being awkward about it and leaving it to the mother – who possibly does not have much of a clue in this area either…

The Biblical Queen Esther was trained by her Uncle Mordecai to be brave, courageous and yet alluring. No wonder she won the hearts of the King in the palace (thank GOD for favour as well, but DON’T rule out her uncle’s training)

Jairus ran after Jesus for the healing of his daughter, he didn’t leave that responsibility to her mother…

Herodias told her daughter to ask for the head of John the Baptist, she obeyed and it was presented to her on a platter of gold!

On a final note, our kids listen and act more on our instructions than those of outsiders. They also watch us and learn more from us than we might actually know. And the teachings we give our kids go a very long way with them.

You have the greatest influence and impact on your child…Use it

LET’S TOGETHER ESTABLISH THE MARRIAGES OF
TOMORROW FROM TODAY….
THE GIRLS OF TODAY ARE THE WIVES OF
TOMORROW. AND THE BOYS OF TODAY, ARE HUSBANDS OF TOMORROW

The type of home training they get will determine the kind of marriages they will have. So parents….please train up your children in the way they should go so when they are older, they will not deviate from it…

 

BJ

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